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July 06 Newsletter
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In Memory of Huda
Hind ElHinnawy
On
July 22nd, a network of women’s associations held a symposium in Tanta
in commemoration of the two year anniversary of the death of rape
victim Huda Farouk El Zaher. Huda was only 19 years old at the time of
her death, when she was lured to an empty office by her attacker after
promises of employment. Her heart condition made her unable to endure
the subsequent sexual assault and she died shortly after the incident.
After her death, her parents were not only made to endure their grief
but also the deep shame that is usually felt by the families of rape
victims in Egypt. This shame is rooted in the double-faced nature of
Egyptian society, which tends to give men the license to do what they
want, while women are left to bear most of the consequences.
Accordingly, Huda’s murderer was sentenced to only three years in
prison and will be free next year.
Unfortunately, rape and sexual assault in Egypt
seems to be on the rise. It is not unusual to see the following
headlines in the daily newspapers, “19 Imprisoned After Forming a
Network to Rape Young Girls,” “A Plumber Rapes and Kills a Child,” “A
Teacher Rapes his Female Student During Private Lessons,” “Two Men
Rape Their Cousin Then Kill Him.” These headlines highlight only a
fraction of the reported cases, which are themselves only a minute
percentage of the incidents of rape that do in fact occur, since
victims often prefer to suffer in silence rather than expose
themselves and their families to the shame and often also the blame
that Egyptian society bestows upon the victims of these crimes.
According to research conducted by The Alliance for Arab
Women, 86% of Egyptian rape victims sampled say they were raped
between the ages of 12 and 17. In addition, according to research done
by the National
Planning Institute, the 760 reported cases of rape in 1994
represented only 2% of the total. Even if this last estimate (2%)
seems improbably low, as already noted, the overwhelming majority of
rape cases are not reported out of fear for the social position of the
woman and her family.
Moreover, the severity of the physical violence
against women has been shown to increase when society unfairly blames
the victim. Many in Egyptian society believe that raped women are
somehow responsible for provoking the attack, which it is assumed
could have been prevented had the woman protected herself adequately,
such as by donning a veil and by restricting her freedom of movement
and associaiton. Thus, together with the fear of social ostracism,
this discriminatory social bias places most of the responsibility for
the rape on the woman herself.
According to research, 28% of a random sample of
Egyptians of both sexes believe that men are responsible for rape, 25%
think that women are responsible, 25% think both are responsible,
12.5% think that society is responsible, and 9.4% think the police and
government are responsible. That means that 50% of those polled
believe that women are in someway responsible for their own rapes.
Ironically, this mindset contradicts all current
research that has been conducted on the motivations that contribute to
a man’s decision to rape a woman. Most psychologists agree that rape
is about control and violence, not about sex or sexual desire.
Moreover research shows that most rapists have lower levels of
education and therefore tend to subscribe to more traditional thinking
regarding gender relations and roles, and are frustrated by
socio-economic pressures such as unemployment.
The most common form of sexual abuse in Egypt,
incest, takes place inside the family. In most cases, the male family
member uses his physical strength to abuse and rape the weaker female.
This results in deep psychological damage to the woman, who often
lives in torment for the rest of her life due to the close family ties
in Egypt and the prevailing silence on such issues. However, violence
against women extends beyond the family and has become a major problem
in the workplace. Research has concluded that 66% of women face abuse
at work, from verbal harassment to inappropriate touching, or even
rape. Insecure economic conditions in Egypt worsen the situation by
creating an unequal power dynamic that keeps many women in abusive
work environments in exchange for much-needed employment.
We Egyptians must ask ourselves: When did violence
against women become such a prevalent feature in our everyday lives?
If this abhorrent crime is to be effectively combatted, a campaign
must be launched that goes beyond research to addresses the root
societal problems that feed sexual abuse. First, Egyptians must stand
together and declare that women will not be treated as a safety valve
for the collective economic, social, and political frustration of men
in Egypt. Furthermore, stronger punishments are needed in order to
deter such assaults in an attempt to stop the rising escalation of
abuse. The Tanta symposium showed the willingness of brave young women
to speak out about the problems that they face on a daily basis. Their
courage and determination not to be silenced points to the positive
impact that many women’s NGOs are having in Egypt, and gives hope for
a brighter future.
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